Son Carries on Father's Legacy
by U.S. Army 1st Lt. James Mason
December 2, 2021
Many fathers can only dream that their
children will follow in their footsteps. But for Col. Robert J.
Kincaid Jr., he turned this dream into a reality for his dad.
Kincaid Jr., the current commander of the 111th Theater Engineer
Brigade, is in the exact same spot that his father was 18 years ago
– commanding the 111th while deployed to the Central Command Area of
U.S. Army Col. Robert J. Kincaid Jr., (right) turned this dream into a reality for his dad. He is in the exact same spot that his father
Col. (Ret.) Robert J. Kincaid Sr. (left) was 18 years ago
... commanding the 111th Theater Engineer Brigade while
deployed to the Central Command Area of Operations. (U.S. Army image by 1st Lt. James Mason
from photos provided by Col. Robert J. Kincaid Jr. -
November 11, 2021)
Col. (Ret.) Robert J. Kincaid Sr. was the
commander of the then 111th Engineer Group during a deployment to
the Middle East in 2003. Although the operating environment in the
CENTCOM region is different today than it was 18 years ago, this
father-son duo conquered challenges that they can both be proud of.
“Pride is not a strong enough word to explain how I feel,
but I would be proud of Rob no matter what he did.” Kincaid Sr.
said. “Although we have a different Command philosophy, my son is
very capable and dedicated. He has developed a background of
training to support today’s missions.”
As proud of his son
that he is, Kincaid Jr. says that he did not get to this point on
his own. The decades of hard work has allowed him to excel in the
military, but it was truly his father who set the foundation
allowing him to get where he is today.
“The reason I am in
the Army is because he set the foundation for me to do it. I am so
proud of what my Dad did and accomplished,” Kincaid Jr. said. “My
Dad is one of the most versatile people I know. 18 years ago when I
was a Lieutenant, I never thought I would be in the same position as
him almost two decades later.”
Kincaid Sr. knows that his son
is capable of tackling the challenges of the deployment and the role
of Brigade Commander on his own, but he takes every opportunity he
has to encourage Kincaid Jr. and give him pieces of advice.
Since arriving in Kuwait in early April of 2021, Kincaid Jr. has
been a regular client in the brigade mail room. Kincaid Jr. says
that his father will typically write and mail him two to three
letters per week. He jokingly says that his dad sends him
Fragmentary Orders, or FRAGO, which is a type of military order that
superior’s give to subordinates on how to execute a mission.
“I love reading his letters,” Kincaid Jr. said. “I give him a
hard time about writing me but I know it is just the father in him
trying to look out for me.”
And Kincaid Sr. love’s writing
him letters just as much.
“It started out with me writing him
about what is going on back at home and little bits of information
of experiences that I had while commanding the 111th,” Kincaid Sr.
said. “It just evolved from their and I continue to write him in
order to relate to him and to expand his mindset because it allows
him to see things differently.”
Kincaid Jr. admits that the
tidbits of information that Kincaid Sr. provides him are helpful and
has allowed him to tackle some of the challenges that he was faced
with while deployed.
Despite the 18 year difference in the
deployments and the different tasks at hand, many of the challenges
they faced were oddly similar.
Both Kincaid’s were charged
with overseeing engineer operations for the entire theater and
moving troops in and out of different combat zones. Kincaid Sr. and
his Soldiers were among the first of troops to move into Baghdad,
Iraq whereas Kincaid Jr. and his Soldiers were among the final wave
of Soldiers to exit Afghanistan.
In addition to the
operational challenges faced by both Commander’s, working with other
units for the first time was a task both Kincaid’s were faced with.
“We had to work with over a dozen units throughout our
deployment that had never previously worked together,” said Kincaid
Jr. “It was a challenge getting them all to work in sync with each
other. It is important to show Soldiers what right looks like and I
think we did that as a Headquarters element.”
faced similar situations.
“There was a lot of jealousy
between the Active Army and the National Guard units, especially at
the Lieutenant Colonel and Colonel levels,” said Kincaid Sr. “As a
National Guard unit, you had to be better and prove yourself more
every day. I had to protect my units, my people and our reputation
With the challenges faced and the successes had
between both commanders and their units, the father-son duo both
agreed that none of it would have been possible without the Soldiers
dedication to the mission, the unit, and the West Virginia National
Less than one percent of America’s population is ever
given the opportunity to deploy and play a role in defending our
nation’s freedom. Even less than that is the percentage of the
population that deploys multiple times with the same unit. There are
five Soldiers in the 111th Engineer Brigade that are currently
deployed that also deployed in 2003 under Kincaid Sr.
think it is an extremely unique opportunity to have served under the
command, at the Brigade level, of a father and son," said Sgt. 1st
Class Fredrick Miller, who deployed in 2003 with Kincaid Sr. and now
in 2021 with Kincaid Jr. "I am honestly proud and honored to have
served with both of them."
“These folks were the best of the
best in 2003 and still are in 2021. Way to go to every one of them,”
said Kincaid Sr. “They are my children also. They are in my prayers
along with everyone in the 111th Engineer Brigade every day.”
Kincaid Jr. owes much of the credit of his successes to his
father and his leadership ability in which he believes laid a strong
foundation for them to create such a legacy.
“He started the
success for them and we have been able to keep it running,” said
Kincaid Jr. “This is such a neat linkage that we are both a part of
and can actually talk about. Being part of a legacy is a great
feeling and knowing that I followed my dad in that legacy is
But Kincaid Sr. and Jr. agree that this legacy is
not just about them. It is also about their family, both their Guard
family and their actual family.
“To everyone in the 111th,
thank you for allowing me to ride along on this journey. You’re the
reason the Theater Engineer Brigade is successful. All the credit
goes to you for your hard work and investment. I just happen to be
lucky enough to be with you,” Kincaid Jr. said. “To my wife Chrissy,
and children Patrick, Nate, Will and Lauren – thank you for
everything. You are the reason I do this and without all of you
there would be no reason to serve because all of you represent what
I love about this state and country.”
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