| | | Medals, Flags, and Memories |  | 
 |  | When all is said and done, the services complete and you're left to self, what is there? Tears - plenty, more than you ever thought were possible
 Anguish - pain beyond belief, gut wrenching, heart piercing
 Questions - without a doubt, many more than most could comprehend.
 Answers - few, especially in the beginning and then you begin to pickup the shattered pieces, and the answers come slowly.
 
 Medals presented in honor, on behalf of a grateful nation
 There is meaning behind each, some going as far back as the Revolutionary War
 A Purple Heart, awarded in the name of the President of the United States
 Given to those who have been wounded or killed while serving our great country
 The Bronze Star, The Silver Star, Distinguished Service Medals and Crosses or perhaps A Medal of Honor
 Medals awarded to those who distinguished themselves by heroic or meritorious achievement
 Extraordinary heroes who at the risk of their lives, went above and beyond in the call of duty
 Various campaign medals which highlight the appreciation of a grateful country to the sacrifices made.
 
 Flags, many more than you thought you could hold.
 Oh the power in a folded flag, what symbolism, strength, and honor?
 All of us would trade them to have our loved ones back
 To see their smiles, their passion, their conviction and yes their heart
 For you and I, for their fellow man.
 
 And, then the memories flood... Initially with the greatest of pain, said to lessen over time
 Memories of happy times, their youth, their aspirations for life
 and for those they would come to influence
 They were sons or daughters, brothers or sisters, a mother or father, a cousin, aunt or uncle and even grandparents
 From many walks of life, many cultures, many ambitions, all tied to a common bond "To Protect and Defend"
 
 Our days are taken up wondering, praying and hoping
 No one wishes for war, no one desires the hurt and pain that accompanies
 We can only pray that another doesn't hear that dreadful knock on the door
 That statement "We regret to inform you"...
 In the end it is the Medals, Flags and Memories that remain; How poignant if only we had known
 If we could, would we have tried to change the path? Could we have changed the path?
 Questions to ponder, all for a grateful nation.
 |  | In memory of our Son, our Angel, our HeroSpc. Matthew John Holley
 Combat Medic
 101st Airborne Division
 KIA � Taji, Iraq on November 15, 2005
 By Stacey L. HolleyCopyright 2007
 Listed June 11, 2007
 Note: Matthew was the only child of Stacey and her husband, John. |  Spc. Matthew John Holley
 KIA Iraq 11/15/05
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