Honoring The Fallen On Memorial Day
Shannon Collins, Defense Media Activity
May 27, 2018
Sobs from grieving family members on the other side of a van were
the only sounds I heard as I focused on participating in the
dignified transfer of one of my fallen brethren to the transfer
vehicle during a temporary duty assignment to Dover Port Mortuary in
2009. Holding a salute as a fallen brother in arms was carried to an
awaiting aircraft while I was deployed in 2005. Then holding my
mom’s hand at my dad’s funeral.
Throughout my life and my 14
years as an enlisted and officer airman in the public affairs career
field, I’ve witnessed my share of death and those who’ve paid the
As we take time to honor the men and
women who have died while serving in the U.S. military this Memorial
Day weekend, I wanted to reflect on how it affects me and highlight
a few of the organizations that are important to veterans like me.
Originally known as Decoration Day, Memorial Day originated in
the years following the Civil War and became an official federal
holiday in 1971. My father served in the Air Force in the 1960s and
died in 1979. My first brush with death and the meaning of Memorial
Day was when I became a survivor.
Assistance Program for Survivors is the national organization
that provides compassionate care for families of those grieving the
loss of a military loved one. The mission of TAPS is to provide
peer-based emotional support to all those who are grieving the death
of someone who died during or as a result of their military service
to the U.S. TAPS has assisted more than 75,000 surviving family
members, casualty assistance officers, chaplains and others
supporting bereaved family members since 1994.
Ms. Bonnie Carroll, TAPS President and Founder, left, and U.S. Air Force Gen. Paul J. Selva, Vice Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, right, embrace the mother and father of U.S. Navy Electronics Technician 1st Class Ronald Hemenway after the Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) Grand Banquet at the 23rd TAPS National Military Survivor Seminar and Good Grief Camp in Arlington, VA on May 27, 2017. Hemenway's perished at the Pentagon during the Sept. 11th terrorist attacks. (DoD Photo by U.S. Army Sgt. James K. McCann)
TAPS holds its 24th Annual National Military Survival Seminar and
Good Grief Camp this weekend in Virginia, culminating with many of
the surviving families visiting their loved ones at Arlington
Cemetery on Memorial Day.
On average, Arlington National
Cemetery conducts between 25 to 30 funeral services each weekday and
six and eight services Saturdays. It is the final resting place for
more than 14,000 veterans, including some who fought in the Civil
For me, it is the final resting place of Jamin Wilson, a
friend I served with at Spangdahlem Air Base, Germany, who died in a
U.S. Army Pvt. Gabriel Thyfault,
left, renders honors while U.S. Army Spc. Nayib Pagan places
an American flag in front of a headstone during "Flags In''
at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, VA on May 25,
2017. Thyfault and Pagan are transportation specialists
assigned to the 529th Regimental Support Company, 4th
Battalion, 3rd U.S. Infantry Regiment, known as "The Old
Guard”. (DoD photo by Sebastian J. Sciotti Jr.)
For more than 60 years, the Army’s 3rd U.S. Infantry Regiment,
The Old Guard, has honored American’s fallen heroes by placing
American flags at gravesites for service members buried at both
Arlington National Cemetery and the U.S. Soldiers’ and Airmen’s Home
National Cemetery just prior to Memorial Day weekend.
Angel Flight /
In 2005, while I was
deployed to Combined Joint Task Force Horn of Africa in Djibouti,
Africa, as an Air Force Public Affairs officer, we had a sailor who
died in a training accident in the Seychelles. The Marines ran the
base at the time, and members of all service branches were deployed
there to provide humanitarian assistance to the people in Djibouti,
Ethiopia, Uganda, Kenya and the Seychelles.
I joined my
fellow airmen, soldiers, Marines and sailors as we lined up silently
while the remains of the fallen sailor were silently carried to the
C-130 to be taken to Dover Port Mortuary in Delaware. In 2005, in
the Air Force, we called them “Angel Flights,” but now they’re
called “dignified transfers” throughout the Defense Department.
Shortly after my deployment ended, and I returned home, two
CH-53 helicopters crashed into each other on a training mission. I
had flown many times with the crews and knew many of them. I still
have the group photo I took with them and photos of flying with
them. I’m still saddened that I wasn’t there for their Angel Flight,
and I honor them every Memorial Day.
Honoring the Fallen
While I served at Joint Base Balad, Iraq, in 2007, we had five
military deaths and three military contractor deaths. We had two
F-16 crashes – one pilot died instantly, and the other ejected
safely. During a memorial ceremony, we held a roll call in which the
names of the fallen were called out, followed by the playing of
“Taps” and a 21-gun salute.
U.S. Air Force Senior Airman
Daniel Hunsperger says goodbye to his supervisor, U.S. Air
Force Staff Sgt. John T. Self, during a May 18, 2007
memorial ceremony in the town hall at Balad Air Base, Iraq.
Sergeant Self died during combat operations May 14, 2007 in
the Baghdad area. Airman Hunsperger is with Det. 3, 332nd
Expeditionary Security Forces Squadron. (U.S. Air Force
photo/Tech. Sgt. Alan Port)
Afterward, each of us walked by an M-16 rifle in a pair of boots,
adorned with a helmet and dog tags, and paid our respects.
Dover Port Mortuary
The primary mission of Air Force Mortuary Affairs Operations is
to fulfill the nation’s sacred commitment of ensuring dignity, honor
and respect to the fallen and care, service and support to their
families. When an aircraft carrying the remains of a fallen service
member arrives at Dover Air Force Base, Delaware, a solemn and
dignified transfer takes place as the remains are moved from the
aircraft to the transfer vehicle to the Port Mortuary.
2009, I had the honor of serving at the Dover Port Mortuary for a
month to help establish the Air Force Dover Port Mortuary public
affairs office. It was the hardest mission in my 14 years in the Air
Force but also the highlight of my career. I assisted with some of
the dignified transfers and ensured that the first media coverage of
the dignified transfers since the 1990s was respectful to the
families. I also had the chance to highlight the missions of the
people behind the scenes.
U.S. Air Force airmen transfer
the remains of Air Force Staff Sgt. Phillip A. Myers during
an arrival ceremony at Dover Air Force Base, Delaware on
April 5, 2009. Sergeant Myers died April 4, 2009 near
Helmand Province, Afghanistan, from wounds suffered from an
improvised explosive device. He was assigned to the 48th
Civil Engineer Squadron, Royal Air Force Lakenheath, United
Kingdom. Sergeant Myers' family is the first to allow media
to cover the dignified transfer under the new Department of
Defense policy. (DoD photo by Roland Balik, U.S. Air Force)
I learned first-hand just how dedicated the airmen and Defense
Department civilians there were in making sure our fallen are taken
care of before they are released to their families. They would spend
hours just to polish a belt buckle or to try to preserve a photo
that arrived with those remains because they knew it would mean
something to the families.
I remember them and their mission
every Memorial Day as well.
As you take time this Memorial
Day weekend with your families, enjoying whatever festivities you
have planned, please also take a moment of silence and reflection to
honor those who have paid the ultimate sacrifice.
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